You are experienced, and the peer of all-ult fighters. Even people half your size shouldn't complain at being attacked by a larger enemy once or twice, even if that's right after they lose DP.
Repeated shipping is sadism. If you ship then lose DP and they kill you again straight away (other than in situations like warfare, you attacking, etc) then complain about it.
Posting here just sounds like whining though.
Written by my hand on the 20th of Mournsend, in the year 1154.