After reading your message I am reminded of what the city CCC's say when sometimes claiming unworthy success for a city quest -
\"You have lived on past glories for too long ........... \"
To newer players of Avalon, you at random are born in on of the three main cities, my advice would be to pass novicehood, choose a guild, establish contact with like minded souls and THEN choose where you wish to pledge your loyalty.
On the other hand I suppose you could milk the undoubted flood of offers for free packs, food, etc and THEN choose where you really want to live.
As a suggestion, perhaps you should only be allowed to change cities a limited number of times or perhaps only once per Avalon year.