What you call \"self-control\" would be called \"repression\" other more free-minded (Nekkid) people. Being \"loose\" actually does quite a bit for the human mind and body. Relieving stress and aggression being the two most prevalent.
That you find willing women to be lacking in self-respect and not the men willing to pay is far more telling of your twisted sense of feminism. Your opinion is nothing more than the same stale ideal from those times when women were thought of mere breeding stock and housekeepers who were not allowed to enjoy it. That is indeed prudish and austere. But as I said, you are quite entitled to your opinion, antiquated as it is.
Be Nekkid, Be Free!
Written by my hand on the 6th of Mournsend, in the year 1215.