Well my post was intended to hit anyone who did not ansewer right to my question, be it me or let's take an exsample Astlebe.
Or even some in mercinae.
I feel like Patronhod defines who you are.
Like orinoko said it's the last resort to change deity.
I feel some people have joined or are thinking about joining the wrong orders for the wrong reasons.
A patron should be the incarnte of what you want to be.
Written by my hand on the 27th of Paglost, in the year 1103.