Sadly, this is the path that many have chosen: to take out revenge on past wrongs by becoming that which they despise. As in other worlds, this build up of aggression has never provided a solution, just a diversion from the true problem. I hope that Grace, and others who have not fallen too far into the addictions we call Revenge and Hatred can be turned away.
In the end, it is simply the aggressor who will shrivel and disappear. Respect is not gained through aggression.